What would you do if you were me?

This applies to both men and women - I filed for divorce a year and a half ago and wehave been separated for 8 months she is in a nursing home and not returning but her stuff is still here - what should I do with it ? I am sick of her stuff here to remind me its like everywhere and when my girlfriend comes I know it offends her so what should I do with it all ?she is not able to do it herself - I would like the best solution not just pitch it or burn it

WE BOTH AGREED TO DIVORCE - so dont throw the vows at me - but in the course of things she ended up in nursing home and is unable to care for herself she is 42 - I am 40 - I was always there for her but people grow apart - it happens

ask her what she would like you to do with it. Ask her if she wants you to give it away or have a sale and she would get the $ from it. Don't forget to ask if she wants any of it. Either way it should be up to her. If she doesn't want to sell it then ask her where you should take it. goodluck

salvation army...they give to needy people.

Get her permission and sell it in a garage sale, then split the money u earned.

am too young to answer this kinda question

see if there is a family member of hers to come and get it, she may want i someday

give it to her parents. Are they still alive? Give it to the good will.

If she has some family near you should give it to them or at least ask them what to do with it. You could also contact her and tell her that you will put her things in storage but she should make arrangements to pay for it.

put it in a storage building..

screw the salvation army, sell that stuff on ebay. she left it there it's yours after a month

Ask her family. It is illegal to get rid of it without her consent.

Box it up. Then the next time she contacts you or your lawyer, let them know that you would like her to come and get it or advise you on what she would like you to do with it.

If she's not coming back at all, sell it at a yard sale, give it to Goodwill or donate it to the nursing home. Make sure there's nothing there that she wants or needs. Or maybe rent a storage bin...

in sickness an health, i guess this dosnt apply to you ! but id call a family member of hers and ask them to please remove it, has far has breaking your vows, well god needs to forgive for that!

you are divorcing her while she is in a nursing home Real nice guy you are, she once meant something to you and now you already have another girlfriend hope you trip over her things and end up right down the hall from her

sell it make money out of it.

Why don't you ask her? If she is not able to make that decision, then ask her family. If that does not work, ask your attorney what you should since you would not want to be accused of stealing. I guess you could always put it all in a storage facility until the details are worked out. So, there you go......lots of options.

You say you filed for a divorce, but are you actually divorced? If your not divorced you have no right to discard her belongings. Can you not give her belongings to her parents or family members? What happened to, for better or worse, in sickness and in health. Don't understand people today. Marriage vows are a waste of time.

ask her family what they want to do with it. first ask her what things mean he most to her.

It doesn't matter if you both agreed to divorce, "What God put together, let NO MAN put asunder." It's not up to you. In the eyes of God, you will always be married until one of you is dead. You are cheating on your wife. You are in my prayers, go back to your wife. If she will not have you, you are on your own. It doesn't matter what you two decide, you are married. You cannot be with another woman.

I would give her things to her parents or family. Something that means nothing to you could have special meaning to them.

Does she have family you can give it to? Children, a sister, parents? I understand that it must be hard on you to go on with memories of hers there to remind you of her. Just have some patience and do the right thing. If no family will take it then I believe that you probably have abided by a statue of limitations for the amount of time a person has to get their belongings.

have a garage sell with things you don't need, and package up her memory things and give to her family.

Talk to her family and friends. See if they want any of the things, or if they will keep it for her. If they don't care, pack it up and give it to some charity.