The Mother-in-law attention seeking?

This lady is something else, when my father-in-law was dying she overdosed on blood pressure tablets, because she did not want him to come home, even though I said I would look after him of which I did, m-i-law ended up in hospital because of overdose so I had the 2 of them in hospital, until father -in-law came out so I nursed him and still visited her in hosp,the dramas she said she was in a jap pow camp,people kept shouting her name over a loud speaker you name I had it, my husband and his brother would not visit their mum because they were angry with her for what she did, anyway after 2 years of having her coming around frm fri-tues every week (I have had 4 w/e off in 2 years,well I have told m-in-law the truth about herself, now I'm EVIL, am I that bad, she has driven me mad she as other problems she cannot go to the toilet on her own if toilet got no window, she is always right, she don't like anybody they all talk about her !!!,by the way she sleeps on my sofa !!!!!. Comments

ignore her from now on...she's not your problem...get your husband to deal with it...it's his mother, not yours...he's took the easy way out by saying he's angry with her coz of what she did, that's a cop out if i ever heard it...she's attention seeking and she is playing on you with her emotional drama...this is for your hubby and his bro to sort, if she is nasty to you again, just remind her who's house she's in. she has no rights being horrible to you after what you have done for her...now it's time for your husband to take responsibility.....also tell her that your sofa will not be available any more if she keeps treating you like that....your the one with the upper hand here, stand up to her and don't let her rule your life....

She seems overprotective and attention seeking... Maybe she is lacking attention from her children..

Next time shes asleep on the sofa creep into the sitting room and crack her across the head with a sack full of door knobs it works every time

i applaud you, you have done more for her than her own children have!

your husband and his brother need to pull their finger out and help, it's their mother, let them deal with her!

Well done you for putting up with her for so long you must be a saint, what does your husband think?time for her to move out i say, a small place of her own or maybe a nursing home , good luck you have done your best

You are a very caring individual, if I was your Mother-in-law I would find euthanasia a preferable alternative to your "caring"
How dare she attempt to end her life to stay in hospital, but hey look at the alternative, she'd have to live with you, a reasonable choice after reading your rant, me thinks !

You don't say how old she is but remember, you'll be old yourself some day and, even if you don't want to, you'll have to rely on someone to help you out. If she's really doing your head in you'll have to try to fix her up with some other sort of support, preferably with some company. You've done well so far but it must be awful to have lost your life partner and have nobody who gives a damn about you. It's a moral minefield.

Stop doing for her and let her son's and husband PAY for someone to take care of her. Clearly, your husband "her son"
is not doing anything for his mother and your surprised at her calling you Evil. This is why her kids want nothing to do with her. She is a sick woman and you will not change her or the situation unless you remove yourself from being a door Matt.

i have the same issues with my mother in law she thinks i am her slave, but i'm lucky as my husband always stands i my corner. she's just a big baby who wants her own way, its your house your rules, and honestly she's not your mother you have no responsbility to her whatsoever, let her sons deal with her.
trust me, it's the only way, i cant wait till i move out, i'll finally have a life.