Any Doctor or Nurse that can gie me their opionion here? Please!?

Around 5 years ago I had vaginal unprotect sex 1 time(it was my first and only time untill I met my bf)with a guy I didn't know very well so I don't know if he had or not HIV.It was something very fast and I was on my period and he didn't come inside me.It probably lasted or 10 minutes.I was very stupid at the time and I didn't give to this a big attention.1 year later I met my bf,we are still together,after 4 1/2 years. We have vaginal(even duringmy period),anal and oral sex and we don't use the condom.He makes HIV test every year,always been negative.Now I started to think about what I did 5 year ago with the other guy and that may be I could have HIV.I don't have any symptons but I know that doesn't count for a good amount of years.I'm very confused cuz I think that if I have it then my bf would probably have it too after 4 years of sex.anyways tomorrow i'm gonna take the test.I'm just so worry and feel so stupid for what i did. I just wanna know what u think abou the situation!thx

I will ave the Testt result next week and I'm so scared!

If you are concerned and had unprotected sex you need to get tested. Women get HIV easier than men because we get raw spots from intercourse and then the virus can enter the bloodstream. The fact that he does not have HIV means nothing. They have followed couples where one is HIV positive and the other is not and they have unprotected sex and the partner has not become HIV positive. That is like playing Russian Roulette, but whatever floats their boat. Get tested and put you mind at ease.

The real question is why your boyfriend gets tested every year. If you get tested and he continues to get tested I would wonder if he is having sex with other women.

Make sure you do not have vaginal intercourse after anal sex. Women can get infections from the e-coli in the anus deposited on the penus and then inserted into the vagina.

I'm negative!!!!!! Report It

Well it sure is stupid to have sex with people you don't know. But it happens. Concidering what you said, the probability of you having HIV is very very low. There have been cases described where a sexual partner does not transmitt the virus even after years of sex. But this is rare. You can not be a 100% sure if you don't test yourself, but I think you have nothing to worry about. But it is good that you are aware of the danger and think twice before you make such moves in the future. Good luck, bye!