Should I FORGIVE or CONTINUE ON DISLIKING them????

my cousins and i dont even talk any more, since their parents died recenlty(father- few months ago, mother-last year), it's all screwed up, about their parents life insurance money,should i forgive my cousins(13,18,19) for doing everything wrong, by letting my poor uncle suffer. My uncle was suffering with HIV/Aids, my cousins sent them to a nursing home, never visited him, never called, had my mother to do and pay for all the funeral arrangements, they even said they wanted him to die, but should I forgive them or not. For starters, i just sent out a friend request(myspace) for them. I think I should be the better person, than anyone else in our family and start to forgive and forget. My family is totally dyskfucntional. I'm 16 and feel not loved. My father's side of the family never accepted me in their family. I dont know, was it the color of my skin. They are all dark skinned, african americans, and I'm light skinned

You might as well. I doubt they really care whether you do or not though.

forgive. dont let them get the better of you. sorry dont realy have anything els, ive been an outcast in my family to, and still dont have a salution. so i dont bother with it, theyll come around. sorry about your uncle:(

You should forgive . Only forgiving will relieve you of the pain you are feeling. Forgive and move on.
Seek solace in solitude first.
Learn to meditate{ how to meditate you will get from net don worry}
try deep breathing
Walk 5kms per day . fast walking.
Listen to peacefull music.

Sounds like a bunch of greedy unloving,uncaring,self centered people.You sound like a rose amongst a bunch of thorns.Your skin color is what god and your parents made it to be and they really need to all get lost if they treat you like a enemy,which is what it sounds like.Forgive to an extent but I think you allready have and they just keep on abusing you so try to distance yourself in mind and to heck with that bunch.

To ERR is human, but to FORGIVE is divine