My girlfriend is HIV positive and we're thinking of having sex, should we?

I met her in the hospital, I was her nurse and we connected instantly. My life has been so miserable until I've met her and I don't think I would be able to continue when she's gone. I want to share her disease so we can die together, because without her, my life is meaningless.

I wouldn't do it... you'll probably met some other loser who's not dying in a few months.

You need counseling. Ok you love her but you want the disease to die with her?!?! good luck with that one. I would pass on the whole thing.

Wow!!!! good luck....see you in heaven...

dont be stupid.

well....you can do other things together besides sex, but don't do it...unless you don't value your life

Consider your health. Do you love her enough to make yourself sick for the rest of your life?

With protection do whatever gets your jollies.
Myself...not a chance. Life to short to gamble with.

of course you shouldn't have sex. unless you are ready to be HIV positive right along with her. the choice is completely up to you. it's something that will change your life forever and eventually kill you. don't let anyone on a stupid Internet website make up your mind on something as serious as this.

good luck

If she is HIV positive, you need to go to her clinic and/or doctor and discuss this with them. They will advise you both on how to be safe

if i were you, i would rather live than die. dont be stupid.

is she worth dying over, i think not, better find a new chick and move on.

with a condom, she might not die anyway(of hiv)

are you retarded? seriously

try to connect on a spiritual level, don't go as far as commiting suicide. Once you connect spiritually she will be a part of you whether she is here or gone.

go a head if you love her that much to live your life in pain and more pain

no you dont want to share her disease you may have a different reaction to it and die faster than her and you have your whole life to look forward to you need to stop think that way you can have protected sex with her and adopt children and you will still be happy with her

Well if you are willing to live with the disease then I say go for it. You can't possibly stay with her and not have sex. I love your story. True love does exsists. I hope you two live a long, healthy life together. Good luck with your life together.

NO! NO! NO! UR LIFE IS NOT MEANINGLESS!

Don't have sex just for that reason. If you're willing to take the extremely high risk of getting HIV, that's your decision of course but don't do something you might regret later. I think this is a situation you might want to just be friends. You can always kill yourself in other highly imaginative ways that are less painful and draining. Who says getting HIV means you will die in a certain number of days? It varies.

Good luck with that

uh, NO! thats not right! that must be hard though

Well, the ultimate decision should be made in your heart. If you think this is the one person you want to be with and can't imagine being with anyone else, then I say go for it. But, you need to make sure its the real thing first.

Don't be stupid, HIV is not a death sentence anymore, a nurse should know that. Use a condom.

If you love her, and she was honest about her medical condition knowing that you are a nurse I would assume you know the pros and cons, and you are and adult and you should use this knowledge to make a conscious decision, We all should be praticing safe sex anyway, go for it, be safe, and everyone deserve to be love. So if this is something your willing to do, no one can make this decision for you. We don't know who our soul mate are, and this d*mn Aids is keeping alot of us from finding out. If you love her show her in anyway you see fit. I sure she agrees with the safe sex Idea, Where a condom.

There are more fish in the sea. In my honest opinoin no girl is worth dying to fufill yourself. You shouldent do it at all. Bro... Dont die for nothing. Be friends with the girl but meet someone new and just be friends with her and dont go anywhere else.

If you do not exchange body fluids should be ok. female to female means sex is more mechacnical to be safe. REmember no bodily fluids or risk of HIV. Anne If like my BF youre a male nurse ..just remember no fluids..usea condom.

you may be happy now with her but you have to think about the future, your guyes happyness could run out and u too could seperate and then u will be left with it. but if u realy want to use pertection...so u dont get it and so there isnt a baby that comes out of it too cuzz u dont want to have a baby born hiv positive.

Well usually I'd tell people with this sort of question not to do it. Life's a precious thing and we should live it and enjoy it, but in your case you seem to want to do it. I guess if it's really what you want, go for it. If you want to have sex and die along with her then do it. However, I can't guarantee you'll two die together at the same time.

Well, me being a nurse as well, don't you think that you have "crossed the line" anyway. You are not supposed to have relationships with your patients. I think maybe you need some psychological help. Why would anyone want to put their life in danger like that. And besides, if she has had the disease longer than you, she will probably die before you and then you will be alone with this disease eating away at you. And there is not a lot of people like your self who is willing to infect themselves, to share such a miserable thing out of love. Just think about this really hard, It is your decision in the end, but think about the future...plus, what if things don't work out between you???

Go ahead bro...True love!!!!

uhhh what happens when she dies, you're still alive and with the diesease?
What if you end up finding someone else later, would you be willing to take the chance to make her sick?
What if you two ended up pregnant and had a sick child, would you want your child(ren) to live a miserable live?
What about your job, you're a nurse you can't work in a hospital if you are HIV positive and even if you are allowed to, what would you do, how would you feel if you accidently gave someone else (IN YOUR CARE) HIV?