Is it too soon?

Long story short....

Im a female. I went to the eye doctor for an exam. The Optician (kinda like the nurse for eyes) is a total hottie (male). Totally flirts with me the entire time (initiated by him). He invites me out to watch him and his friends do an improv comedy show the following night.

I cant go, so I waited a week. (went last night). He hugs me and is super excited to see I came to his show (2nd time in my life ive seen him). Then he yells out in the middle of the room "The Versace's are CUTE!" (referring to my glasses that he helped me pick out).

Then hugs me twice before I leave. It seems he was going to ask for my number, but my friend was standing right there and he was being called back to stage immediatly.

Question... is it too soon to pay him a visit at work? I mean... to get my glasses adjusted to better fit my face? Or should I wait another day, then go talk to him.

I want him to know Im interested, but I dont want him to think Im a stalker.

And, my friend noticed him constantly looking at me and staring all night.

I think by showing up to where he was performing definitely indicated that you were interested in him and that you should try to let him do some of the work from there. I am really surprised that he asked you to come there and then never asked for your number. Now I don't want to sound negative but if a guy is really into you and sees that you went out of your way to see them, I cannot think of even one good excuse as to why he didn't ask for your number. I think that you should wait it out to talk to him at least for a little while and see what he says to you, if he still doesn't ask for your number, I would just forget about it and use those Versace's to see yourself someone who won't waste your time by acting interested in and then never asking for your number. Take care and good luck and I hope that if he is really interested in you that he will come around but if he doesn't just remember that it's his loss and definitely not yours :)

It happens to the best of us. I mean if anything, at least u tried and know (even if the outcome wasn't what u wanted) and now u can move on to someone more deserving of ur love & affection & won't have to worry about all of the 'what if's' if u had not done anything.

Take care & Good luck :) Report It

1. Pick up phone.

2. Dial his number.

3. Ask him out to lunch.

4. See what happens!

5. Don't over analyze.

Why don't you call him at work?

Well it's obvious that he likes you so go for it.

maybe u should just start up a conversation about u know, the things u like to do, places u go to, just flirt a little back and see what happens, and if u have to, let him adjust those glasses over and over, lol

if he was that excited to see you at his show, he'll be really happy if you go to his work. go have your glasses fixed, and ask him if he is busy that weekend and if he would like to go to lunch or to an afternoon movie, or you can talk about his show and maybe he'll ask you to come again. looks to me like the making of a relationship!!!

Good luck!!!

i very much doubt he will think you are a stalker ---- yes its a valid reason to see him again and why not get his number???

Sounds like he is really into you, I would go make sure your glasses, um, fit!

Have fun, and hope it works out!

You're not a stalker unless he tells you to leave him alone and you don't. And it is VERY important that you're glasses "fit your face" lol. Go for it, he'll like it.

obviously he is really interested in you...so I say no it's not too soon...if you go "get your glasses adjusted" then how would you be a stalker and maybe he is waiting for you to ask for his number and i say go for it the worst thing he could do is say no!!

By his actions I would say that he would probably appreciate a visit at work. Exchange numbers and then see where it goes. Of course if it gets serious you will have to transfer out to another eye doctor because he might get in trouble for dating a patient.