My gyncologist does things that dont...feel right.HELP!?

.He touches me all over.On the first time he told me he was supposed to do it.Every time I go he does a full exam.He looked and touched my breasts.But then he squeezed them hard and was making me uncomfortable by "pushing in the tips."When he inserted the speculum he opened it very wide it really hurt.He looked inside.I knew this was normal but then he stroked my g-spot and I pee'd all over him.He said somthing was wrong and he inserted his whole hand!into my vagana.He then squirted saline into it.And said it was ok.In the rectum exam he inserted three fingers and moved them around in there.It hurt like hell.Oh,and when he took a pap smear he moved the q-tip all around and was poking my cervix with it and then he jammed it "up there" really quick and I screamed it hurt so bad!Then he said"all done" and told me to get dressed.!!!I want to go to someone else but i cant afford it what should I do?He asks if I want a nurse in the room but allof his nurses are male!Please help me.

Y'all this girl is lying! Yesterday she said she was 12,in one question (that got removed), then in another she was married and her hubby wants 10 kids (which she found out on her honey moon). She just wants attention.

-Please go get some help, if you are depressed a doctor can help you.

#1 - tell someone, the police, your parents, someone!! #2 - make a formal complaint with the State Medical Board and they will do an investigation and possibly take away his license #3 I am almost certain that you have the right to ask for a female nurse to be present #4 take a parent or a friend with you if you absolutely must go back.

PLEASE TAKE ACTION!!!!!! AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!! THIS IS SO WRONG!!!

Take along someone, like a sister or friend. And ask for a female nurse. Try to find someone else. Maybe a Planned Parenthood. You don't need a doctor to do the exam, a nurse practitioner would also work.

Do not go back to him. A doctor who does those things to you is horrible. He is taking advantage of you. Call the police and report him. A good male doctor would have a female nurse in there and would not do things to make you uncomfortable.

You are right to feel violated. EVERY gynecologist should have another person in the room - it doesn't have to be a nurse. Every gyne I know - male and female - will not do ANY exam without a chaperone. (Mainly they do it to protect themselves from false accusations of abuse) The fact that he does an exam alone is cause for concern. And a guy that hires only male nurses for a women's health practice... sounds very fishy to me!

You need to report him to your state medical board. He is probably doing this to lots of women. Do it for all of you.

A gyne exam is never pleasant, but it shouldn't hurt.

your full of it! there has to be a female present in the room the whole time. I know my mom is an obgyn dr's nurse ask real questions and dont make up stuff!

please list to redgirls answer this is so wrong you need to tell the authorities there is nothing wrong with speaking up this your body and he is in a profession were we but our bodies and trust in his has something needs to be done

SORRY THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU THE FIRST THING YOU WANT TO DO IS TELL SOMEONE WHO YOU ARE COOL WITH AND TRUST IN AND TURN THE BASTERD DOC IN .. WELL GOOD LUCK .. AND DONT FEEL ALONE THIS HAS HAPPENED TO OTHER WOMEN .. :)