Have I ever been in love?

Just by analyzing my past relationships, or strange relationships.

I once liked a guy I worked with, and we ate dinner once (mind you, dinner was the last day I saw him). Doesn't seem like love, but I thought I was in love with him until I said goodbye. And then I was over him.

I once liked my male nurse and did obsessive things about him. I was obsessed with him for 6 whole months. However, he had no interest in me. Doesn't seem like love.

Could it be I have never been in love?

It took me months after I was out of the hospital to get over liking my male nurse. I've also had an infatuation that lasted for 3 years, even after last seeing the person back in high school. I dunno, maybe I'm just obsessed.

a tiny one-sided love...
jeez, cant u even tell by urself?

keep looking

ur the one who is supposed to know that

If you got over them within 24 hours, I'd say it's just infatuation.

If you've been in love you would have known. You know when you are in love. You only assume until you are.

No. When its love you'll know.

No it's not really love when you're confused

?? dont think so try

None from the above! I wish you to be in the future!

my opinion is that you've been infatuated and not in love

Good luck

dont be so obsessive


mr right will come along

how old you be

You know, only you can answer that question. You're the only one inside your head.

The best is yet to come.

from the looks of your avatar, nope.
but then, just keep on looking! it'll come to you one day.

Sweetie, neither of these two situations sound like love to me. I cannot tell you (nor can anyone else tell you if you are in love or not). . . .that is something ou have to decide for yourself. Her is my advice for you (not that I am all that experienced or wise) but, you need to first and foremost be yourself. If you are shy that is okay but under NO circumstances act like you are someone you are not. Tell the person straight out, "I am really shy" but am interested in you because. . . . .and don't spend time obsessing over someone. It only does more and more damage to your self esteem and if you did end up with someone like that (that you were obsessed with and in such awe of) you would eventually begin to resent them treating you like a door mat. You have thoughts and feelings and deserve to be treated with respect just like everyone else. Find out what the other person is interested in and if it is not one of your intrestes read up on it so you can at least have a start for a conversation and then tell them something you are interested in (don't let the whole conversation be about them). Good luck.

you might have been in love already - though not reciprocated or there where no confirmations.....which btw will be from the object of your feelings

I'm not in love
So don't forget it
It's just a silly phase I'm going through
And just because
I call you up
Don't get me wrong, don't think you've got it made
I'm not in love, no no, it's because..

I like to see you
But then again
That doesn't mean you mean that much to me
So if I call you
Don't make a fuss
Don't tell your friends about the two of us
I'm not in love, no no, it's because..

I keep your picture
Upon the wall
It hides a nasty stain that's lying there
So don't you ask me
To give it back
I know you know it doesn't mean that much to me
I'm not in love, no no, it's because..

Ooh you'll wait a long time for me
Ooh you'll wait a long time
Ooh you'll wait a long time for me
Ooh you'll wait a long time

I'm not in love
So don't forget it
It's just a silly phase I'm going through
And just because I call you up
Don't get me wrong, don't think you've got it made
I'm not in love
I'm not in love


^_^ good luck