Need to know what I am doing wrong?

I work, clean house, wash dishes and clothes, wash her car, even change the oil, tell her that I love her, kiss her before going to bed and in the morning, take her to the movies, dance and eat, bought her a house, a ring and a car, cook for her, call her to tell her that I miss her and that I love her, and a whole lot of other things. The problem is that I am a male nurse and I work with only females, and last friday we had a hard day in the office and after work we all went to have a beer, I even call my wife to come along and she got all mad at me, any way she is moving out and I don't know what to do, is having a beer with your co-workers a reason to move out, even after apologizing to her, need an advice

You have spoiled her rotten. She does not appreciate all that she has because it seems she has everything and has not had to work for any of it.

either there is something you aren't telling us... or she was looking for a reason to move out.....

CLEARLY your wife is over acting! She may even using the whole "I'm moving out" act as an excuse to leave the relationship and if that's the case you don't need her.

Dude, sounds like you give this chick everything every other chick whines about not getting....

Having a beer with co-workers shouldn't drive someone to leave. I think the problem is on her end. Sounds like control issues.

You sound like a great guy, wish my guy was like that. She sounds like she has a jealous side. There may be more to this then you know, going out for a beer doesn't sound like a reason to move out.

If she is moving out over this, she is using it as an excuse. She must be moving out for a different reason.

Seriously, if you've given her no reason not to trust you... then she's bieng childish. If you truly have provided all that for her, she is lucky, and quite frankly let her move out for a while and try to take care of herself, she'll come back because she'll realise how hard it is to make it on your own.

You going out to have a beer after work with your co-workers is not a reason for her to move out. I think she used this as an excuse because she wanted a reason to move out. There maybe more going on with her while you are working.

You have done it all for her what is left for her to do. Help her pack and move next. A few days of cleaning house, washing dishes, washing clothes and changing oil on her on and she will be begging you to let her come back on the gravy train. Or has she finally decided to get up off the couch and get a life?

I guess after a hard day at work, she visualizes that you should have wanted to be home with her.

You sound like a great guy! I guess it depends upon how she grew up and her experiences. Most people are going to say dump her that it is a control issue. It is; but there has to be a reason behind it.

Talk to her; say, "Sweetheart, what in your past hurts you so much that you want to leave me behind this? I don't understand." How do you envision our life together in relations to this incident? What made it so wrong to you? You have to get her talking.

Rather than getting defensive---really listen to her. Sounds like she has had a bad experience.

Let her explain it to you. Three things could happen--You understand where she is coming from and can live with it; You understand where she is coming from but can't live with it. And I hate the last one but it is a reality--she might be looking for an excuse out of the relationship. Sounds to me like you are too good to her and she is taking advantage of you.

Anyway you look at it, you will have your answer. Good luck!

What would your wife say if she were writing us here? What would she criticize you for? My guess would be she would say you spend too much time at work. Sounds like you've done a lot for her. You're closest to this situation and know her motivations best. Could it be that she's found someone else and is maunfacturing this non-issue to make a reason to leave you? Heartbreaking that this woman would throw away everything you've given her. Don't be such a good guy if she moves out -- file for divorce first so you'll have the advantage. Good luck. Sorry things turned out like they did.

you are the opposite of my hubby.. I am SO sorry..I think that no matter what you do for some people they always want more....I think she was just looking for a way out.. this was the perfect excuse to leave.. I am SO sorry Hun.. I hope you two can work things out..

Sounds like you picked the right job Carlos. She's probably moving out to find a real man . Look dude, you are much too soft. I can dig being nice to everyone but you are way over board. You know what they say about nice guys ? Yup! you always finished last , only in your case it's after you cook dinner and wash the dishes. Maybe she doesn't like the way you look in that white skirt when you leave for work. Grow a pair my man . Always treat your woman with respect and dignity but don't be a doormat for her or anyone. She has finally accepted your kindness for weakness and I'm not sure that she's wrong.

for some reason you are comin off as a saint and her terrible....i think your leaving stuff out.
anyways, sounds like there is a bigger problem.
she probably wants to leave anyways.
if your such a good guy youll do everything you possibly can do before calling it quits!

Well I'm not sure what you are doing wrong. But sometimes some women think their man may be too "lovey dovey". I would love for a my husband to do that much for me, however, some women feel that their husband can be doing too much! She may not have admitted it (and as crazy as that sounds) it could be true. Or if that is not the case, maybe she could be hiding something, or just need space. You never know what could be going on in a woman's head! Well just pray about it, and hopefully things will work out!

put her and all her crap on the curb....