Kids and a job?

I want to have kids and im only 16. I know all the problems it can cause, but i know someone who had a kid at 15 and shes a nurses assistant (I figure thats a good job?) But they are well off. I dont enjoy life right now. I want to get this part over with, not because "Oh my gosh, Craig cheated on me with Michael" or whatever, its just that Im bored. I dont like anything that other people find fun, and I want to have kids and have a job. Is this weird, or is it just "You just want to grow up" bla bla bla? Could it be that there would be someone whos life depended on me and I would feel needed or something? I have no clue.

I know where you are coming from. I was the same way, I am 15. If you really want a child I would first make a plan. for example do you have a job? can you get one? can you drive? there is a lot more to just having a baby. I wish you the best of luck and you can e-mail whenever you like. I was the same way.

have kids it's none of our business

i dont know what the reason is...im tryin to figure that out myself now cus im goiin thru the same thing. Everyone is saying that i wont b able to be a normal teen n go or stay out late but i dont do that as it is so 2 me i wouldnt b givin anything up. If u feel ur ready n know u wouldnt b puttin urself or the baby in jepordy then go for it.
GoodLuck

how long have you wanted this? and i think you should ask someone other than yahoo questions

I think if your life feels empty, you should try many things before deciding to have children. Since once you have children, there's no going back, I would make sure children isn't what you're missing before deciding to have your own. Try a few other new things before this. At least wait a bit before making such a big descision. You sound like a very logical person, so I'll assume you'll make a good choice.....

It's the you would feel needed if you had a baby. But honey just be a nanny or something, get a boyfriend, but don't have a baby. It's not fair to you, the boy or the baby. It may seem fun to have a kid, but your not financially stable and I doubt you really want to wake up ever 2 hours to feed and change a baby. Do you have enough money to pay rent, because your parents may not want you to live with them, utilities, diapers, food, baby clothes, toys, childcare while you work? I doubt it, you'd end up on welfare and wic.

And a nurses assistant isn't really a good job, when you can go to school for two years and be an actual nurse. My cousin had a child at 15, her jobs have included working at the dollar store and waiting tables. It's incredibly hard and she wishes so much she would have waited, because she suffers and in many ways so does her baby because she doesn't get to spend that much time with him because she's working to support him.

So join a club, take on responsibility, become a nanny. Do something else to feel needed.