I'm 18, female, 2nd year college Nursing student, I get As and Bs at school and my GPA is 3.9, however..?

I never had a boyfriend, like ever. I'm not bad-looking, I am naturally tanned, sometimes olive-skinned when the heat's swelling up. I'm not that tall though,like five feet flat, I have brown eyes and have black hair..I'm not into parties but I socialize well with people, I have no problem with boys.. I'm a writer, but I'm not geeky, I dress normally, I talk normally and hang out with nice and great people. Something wrong with me? Just wondering..

To spanky,
If you want to be brutally honest, I will, too. I think you are way too focus into answering that you forget the last phrase I wrote, 'just wondering', I merely asked the question not to be psychologically scrutinized because I am majoring in Psychiatric Nursing, if you're gonna tell me that of all people, I should be the one to know if I have a problem is that, I am just asking. Don't be too hard answering casual questions, you sound a little overboard and judge me on what I wrote. As for your advices, I appreciate them, but then again, you might've wrote in a politer way. That would be all.

Is there something wrong with you? I believe is your question and the answer is you think too much. I can tell that by the way this question is written. You built a case for your defense without ever stating what your problem is. I am guessing you want a man and like it or not you find them usually at parties or bars or social functions and not in Nursing school. Fafankly if you wanted me to be brutally honast you should have inserted a photo of how you look and dress normally so that I could give you constructive criticism that might help you. As is you are making me sound needlessly cruel when in fact all I am trying to so is take your question seriously. Getting back to how you write. "I am not bad looking" not only sounds like you are saying you are not good looking but it sounds like you are willing to settle for second best. Stop that. "I never had a boyfriend like ever." makes you sound like a valley which is age telling even if you hadn't given your age. Stop that too. You then waste my time with details of skin, hair, eyes and height, omitting wieght body measurements and so on like I will judge you based on superficial fact. Stop doing these things. Talk. Don't talk about your limitations. Talk about your dream, your thought, your likes, your loves. your wants , your desires, your secrets , your pleasures. Talk about the person inside the body you have and let other find out that you and they are not too different in what you all like. That is a start. Going to a party is another start. Actually hitting on a boy is a big step. And until you are more experienced with boys do not tell them you love them. You probably will scare them off if you do. And you gave me your GPA. What were you thinking there? That smart people do not have boyfriends? Not true. Stop with the defenses and get out there and have fun. And stop writing about things. Experience them. You can write about them when you are older and have no time on your hands because your husband has an insatiable urge to possess you. Now, smil and get out there and have some fun. And don't dress normal, dress sexy, normal is for a friend , not a girlfriend. Sexy is for a girlfriend. Now go, shut off the computer and go . Party.

I wasnt't trying to be harsh in the sense that there is something wrong with you, but I was trying to be harsh in the sense that what you are doing is not getting you what you want. The problem with kicking it with your friends is they are friends and not lovers. Report It

I apologize for the way you this reads but I said the question makes me sound needlessly cruel if I want to help you, and; I do want to help you. I just think you need to get out more and stop thinking about what the guy thinks. you appear to have a lot to offer. I would just offer it. Report It

And I am old school but I respect a woman you knows what she wants and is ready to go after it. It does not always have to be the guy who makes the first move. Report It

I am sorry if this offended you but I wanted it to make you get out there and take charge. Until you do you will always wonder what the guy is thinking. Just know what you are thinking. Good Luck. Report It

You answered your own question... Your g.p.a. is 3.9. you study a lot,..Your school takes up your time,has nothing to do with your appearance,try going out with girlfriends,meet people.

Nugget

I can honestly say that you sound good to me. That sounds awesome that you are barely 18 and already in your 2nd year of college, and that you have such a high G.P.A. I'm gonna be 20 and still finishing my 2nd year of college this semester. The problem is, I have a girlfriend and it kind of affects my grades. I don't go party a lot or drink, but i spend so much time with her and it really affected my grades. My advice to you would be finish college. Get the highest G.P.A. you can and then when you get out into the real world, you will find somebody perfect. I can imagine with those grades you are very smart and will more than likely get a high paying job. Just keep up the work and don't let someone bring you down. Nothing is wrong with you.

No. Nothing wrong with you. If you are already hanging out with great people, then why would you need more? I happen to believe that is better to have a few true friends than a bunch of "buddies".

You are still young. Your time will come. Right now, concentrate on school. Getting your degree and RN is to important to mess up with us guys. Soon you will be making a very good salary and will have the time to find someone and date more. I give you credit. I wish i did nursing school at 18. Here I am at 35 and I am graduating with my RN in May. By the time you hit my age, you can be well along on your career, teaching or running a whole hospital.

I'm sure you are a beautiful girl and somewhere out there is a guy waiting to meet you.

Unfortunately ( and lucky for me) nursing is 96% women, so you aren't exactly in a program to meet guys, know what I mean? Once you start working, all the young doctors will be all over you, so relax. I am only one of three guys in my class.

As a nurse, we already know you are smart and definitely beautiful on the inside to enter this profession.

Graduate, get a job and the rest will fall into place. I know its lonely and as a nurse you have the personality where you probably lony for intimacy and a relationship...but it will come. And when it does, you'll long for your carefre and single days.


Good luck with school.