Why does my life have to suck so much?

Why is it whenever I look around, everyone is happy, married with kids, and enjoying life. I personally have never enjoyed my life. I've been single a long time, and will be single forever. My finances are a mess as well as my professional life. And to add to that i'm starting a new career in the nursing profession. And all the nurses i've worked with tell me to not become a nurse! Why does everything have to suck so much?

cause you make it that way. you don't have the balls to change. lets be honest you can change any second of any day. You can wake up tommorow and say f--k this sh1t. Boom you go to the mall or any other place and hit up at least 10 girls. You have no clue what to do but you TRY. You look at your finances and say 'omfg what do i do' you strap yourself down and make a plan and say 'i'm getting out of this sh1t'. Your sad and you can turn that around by going somewhere by TRYing to do different things. The only thing impeding your happiness is YOURSELF. Grow some balls and get it done..

i feel bad for u

life isnt fair...

you could be in prison

You are just in a rutt, it wont always be like this and you will not always feel this way. keep your chin up, tomorrows another day.

When a former girlfriend broke up with me, i couldnt handle the shopping centre, seeing all the happy couples holding hands.

Later on i got over it, theres lots of single people out there, and life can be equally as awesome as it is ****.

Its about balance and perspective. Give it time and concentrate on doing things that make you happy.

Maybe cause your attitude SUCKS!
Dude if you keep thinking everything sucks it will.
Try putting on a smile no matter how much it hurts.

if you looked at life with the glass is half full mentality it might be better, if you look for things in your life that suck, you'll find them, try thinking of the positive, no one is void of something positive in their lives...

dude just stiffen up your shoulder and think of new things u can do in your average life to spicin it up a bit.
join something that will get you social and meeting new people

It,s not about right or wrong, good or bad, up or down, left or right, in or out, enter or exit ect..... honesty or lies.......

We work on three wheels not two, as we continue on our journey through life, we use three types of energy- positive, negative and neutral. Neutral is the balance of our synergy between the three that equal mind, body and spirit. If you observe religions, they focus in on one or two of these three.

Think about now! Its always now and never yesterday nor tomorrow!

Now find yourself in between the silence and go forth passionately with what you feel you need to do.

Do not compare and only look at yourself.

King

Well, My mother is a nurse, and she seems to enjoy that... Being a nurse is a real calling... It's very hard work, and usually it's a thankless job... To be a nurse is hard...

I give you alot of credit if you're really planning on becomming a nurse...

As to the finances part, Might I suggest you goto your local hospital and goto the nursing office. Every hospital I've heard of is short on nurses, so if you go there and ask for help, they'll probably help you with a few conditions (I've heard of them paying for someone to goto school completly and the person just had to work for that hospital for 5 years after school ended)... That can probably help with your finances...

Don't worry about the dating part, get the rest of your life in order, and that'll just fall into place.

i think u might be depressed. i think a trip to your doctor's can help.

for one... who gives a sh*t what other nurses say.. lol. for two i've never started a relationship with a guy so you need to get out there and take charge lol try askin a few girls out it never hurt. trust me nothing's as bad as it seems. i've always been happy no matter what situation i'm in. i loved being in a year long relationship but it ended horrible... he stole from me i found out he was addicted to drugs and got arrested forging checks from my bank. So there's times being single is better. Just let things happen, dont stress, and appreciate what you have. : )

life is what you make it

Take it easy bros,u are the only person that can change your life.Be whatever u want to be as long as u are happy.Trigger it everyday and u will find life is wonderful.Take care and good luck.

You really need to change your attitude and outlook. If I was to look back at my life and dwell in all the bull**** and drama that's gone on in it, I would probably never get out of bed. Your life is what you make it. I always feel happiness in my heart regardless of what's going on at the time. That's not to say I've never felt sad, just not enough to think my life sucks. I got separated almost 2 years ago and I couldn't be happier. My marriage might be over but I got 3 amazing kids out of it. I wouldn't want to change that for the world. Do what you want to do and let people talk and say what they want. Look and focus on the good things you got going, if you think there's none start something that'll make you happy or at least bring you to smile when you do it. I'm sure you'll find someone soon also if that's what you want. Just don't think about it so much or try so hard and when you least expect it, expect it. Good Luck.