Ok my bf of like 5 years is wanting to have a baby. I'm about to graduate from nursing school and...?

we are planning to get married in the future. Do you think its okay to have a baby first and then get married?

no! get married first!

i was 4 months pregnant when my husband and I got married and i was also in nursing school pregnant and then with a newborn...no matter what i think you can do it

I would get married first.

I think you should wait. If you guys have enough money so ported than and go ahead.

How do YOU feel about it?

It's all based on your preference.
Usually, it's religion that keeps people from having kids before they're married, but its really upto you & your bf.

Pre-Congrats on the graduation.
Good luck with your decision.

personally i would say get married first, think about how much less drama and stress you'll have if you're out of school and already married and stable before you have a baby. i would definitely put some serious thought into it before i decided anything.

Yes, my partener and I decided to spend our savings on a house down payment instead of a wedding.

Babies like a place to live much more than a piece of paper, in fact I don't think babies care about pieces of paper at all...

it's what my mom did.

to each his own..if your ok with it then why not??...as long as its what you want..

If you're willing to make a lifetime commitment to one another by becoming parents, why not get married first? personally I'm against anyone TTC before marriage. I think it's wrong. Children deserve a real family.

1st get married.... make sure you baby will be in a secure inviroment,,,,,, trust me its the best feeling...Good Luck Hun!

Why does he think having a baby is more important than being married? Would you want to be raised by only one parent? If you can't make a serious commitment to each other they you are not ready to have a child together.

Get married first, whats the big rush? Do it the right way.

Finish school first and foremost, and then get married and then have a baby, if he can make a commiment to you and that baby he can marry you first. Good Luck

Do whatever you want girl!If you want a baby, then rock out and have one.

it's completely up to you, how do you feel about it? My only advice is definitely wait until you're finished with school and working steadily.... babies are expensive!!