Breastfeeding in Public Question - Nursing on a Train??- Mature people answer only?

I have breastfed in public a few times (covered up) and had no problems with people - they either didn't notice or didn't seem to mind
I dont understand why people get so upset about it -when it is natural and its how my baby is fed - just like thousands of other babies are
ANYWAY ***
I will be traveling on a TRAIN soon for 7 hours andwill have to breastfeed my daughter for at least twice during that time frame

Are there any rules/ guidlines to Breastfeeding in Public Transportation that I should know about
And should I expect people to get offended?
What would you do?
Any advice - please
Has any of you Moms out there been in a similiar situation -like on a Plane or Bus??? If so what did you do????
Thanks

I have nursed on planes and buses many times. I didn't do anything special--just pull up my shirt and nurse! I rarely got any comments, except for an occasional "You had your baby there the whole time?! I had no idea!!" when getting off an 11-hour flight.

You didn't say where you live, but if you are in the US, breastfeeding is legal in public in *all* locations. In some states or cities, there are specific penalties for refusing to "let" a mother nurse her baby. If you are traveling to or through more than one state, you may want to look up the law in each one. See sources section below for details. Then you can quote the specific law to anyone who harasses you.

I do *not* on basic principle put a blanket over my baby's face while nursing. She wouldn't stand for it (I don't blame her!!), and I object to the whole idea anyway. The *only* people whose faces are covered in public are those who are dead. That is not an example I choose to follow for the life-giving act of breastfeeding. It is *disgusting* to even suggest it.

Just curious to professional, do you think a mother should breastfeed her infant in a public hot tub.I agree with the employee who said it was not prudent of the mother to nurse there.This woman should be informed that every location is not appropriate for nursing. Report It

no

I see nothing wrong with it if you just put a baby blanket over yourself while the baby is feeding.

It is natural and as long as your covered NO one has a right to say anything. A baby has to eat.

Actually there are no rules, however due to many lawsuits breastfeeding in public is allowed and in most places accepted. You shoud have no fears for breastfeeding in public, its natural and completely legal.

dont think there are rules and regulations its perfectly normal if you have a blanket on besides breast milk is healthier for the baby

I think you should be fine and DON'T WORRY about other people. . . most people won't even know what's going on. I think that if you make a huge production out of the matter then THAT'S when you'll get unwanted attention. Good luck to you!! :)

I nursed my daughter until she was 27 months. My son is 15 months and still going strong. I nurse in public all the time.

My two best pieces of advice for doing this in an enclosed space (I've never done a train, but I've done a plane many times) are:
1) If you can, sit on the inside by the window. If your husband is with you, have him sit at the aisle. You will feel more comfortable if you aren't on the aisle, and it also limits the chances that baby will kick someone other than your husband.

2) Get baby latched on and then look around with a smile of confidence on your face. You'd be amazed how many people won't notice or care. What draws attention isn't the nursing, it's the sneaky look of guilt many women wear when you're nursing.

Remember, everyone will see far more breast on a Hooters ad or on TV than they will while you're nursing your baby, and what you are doing is absolutely and positively the very best for your little one.

Good luck!

From the perspective of a father of four, I got so used to it when my wife did it that I didn't even realize when other women were doing it. Those that are bothered tend to be those who have not breastfed children or been the spouses of those who breastfed children.

The most polite mothers will cover up with a light blanket. Don't feel bad about doing this. In most countries mothers don't cover up.

I don't have a problem with women breastfeeding in public as long as they are not just popping out without covering up. Take a poncho, shawl, blanket with you. When my son was at Children's Hospital in Seattle there was a woman walking around the cafeteria with her shirt pulled up and boobs hanging out and no blanket to cover herself or her child. That is wrong, especially if there are kids around.

I would contact the train company and check with them. More likely I would tell them that I need to breasfeed my child so that the conductor can be made aware of it should any narrow minded people get it in their head to complain about it. My wife had a perfect answer one time in a restaurant. When a gentleman at another table complained about my wife breastfeeding she calmly and politely told the gentleman that after watching him eat she was surprised that he would criticize anybody's eating habits. The shocked look and red face was priceless.

I too have breastfed my babies and yes it is annoying with all the stares and attention people give you. I myself would cover myself up. Not really so much for other people but for respect for myself and my child. It is natural and one of the best bonds with a mother and baby. I would just lift the blanket away from the babies face so air could get in if the baby was getting to hot. I think if are covered up there shouldn't be to much stares but if you are not covered up then yes expect a whole lot of stares.

as long as you dont flash your bits around it is ok
the reason why poeple jump up and down about it is that some mothers make a huge deal out of it and make sure everyone knows they are doing it
just keep a blanket handy and wear a maternity bra and easy to undo shirt so there is not need for flashing and all

i usually made an effort to feed before i went out but sometimes had to feed when in public... never had any complaints...

I'm a mother and grandmother and I have no problems with a mother breastfeeding her child in public IF it's done discreetly and with no fanfare. I think you're doing it the right way--covering up so unless someone is staring at you no one should even be aware of what you are doing. My daughter-in-law is also breastfeeding and she puts the blanket over her shoulder and the baby before lifting up her shirt and bra. There's no way you can tell what she's doing. It is a natural act--you don't see animals with baby bottles feeding their young--but some people are going to protest no matter how careful you are.

You might want to see if there is some place you can sit (perhaps in another car) where there is more privacy when it is time to nurse. If not, maybe you could turn in your seat towards the window where it would be even less noticeable.

I don't know of any rules--you might want to call the number where you made your reservation and ask them if there are any restrictions--or if there is a quieter place you could go.

As I said, someone is bound to complain, but you'll find that anywhere. Be polite, maintain your cool, and if they say something rude, respond with something like, "I'm sorry you feel that way, but I'm sure you want my daughter to get the best start in life that I can provide her." or words to that effect. Just don't get upset because you know that's not good for your milk supply or the baby.

Good luck and enjoy your trip.

OK. I'm a self proclaimed expert on this! You have every right to nurse your baby in public. I'm not an activist or anything, but the kid has got to eat, right?! Call ahead to ask for suggestions or ask when you board if there is a private area you can use, not the bathroom, they will probally try to find you a good spot. Then ask if you are free to go there as needed. If you're lucky, there may be a designated area or a private lounge. If not, maybe there's an empty row of seats you can use. Worst case scenario, do like you always do and cover best you can in your own seat.

If anyone gets offended, ignore them. Just don't flash your boobies. Maybe if they complain you could be asked to move to a more discreet area where you'd be more comfortable anyways.

Are you traveling across states? You may be able to find out online if your state or the states you are traveling through have laws protecting women's rights breastfeed in public. Check out La Leache League (sp?) So if needed, you can be armed with the facts.

Good luck and don't feel badly about feeding your baby in public.

If you need to nurse, then do so... but you can be discreet about it. I know in close quarters it can be difficult, but just draping a blanket over your shoulder will be enough. You could try getting a window seat so that you don't have eyes on both sides. If you're traveling with a companion, have them sit next to you so that they can provide some privacy. As long as you make an effort to cover up... tells people that you are conscientious. If anyone gets offended by what you're doing... that's their problem! I just recently had to fly, and nursed my son both ways. My return flight became a nightmare and I was on the plane for 14 hours. I made every effort to be discreet, but did not deviate from nursing simply because I had no where to go.
Some years ago, I was on a train at rush hour 7:30 am(mass transit), and a woman sitting down just flopped out her boob and began nursing her baby. Though she had a blanket on her lap, she made no effort to cover up... and I mean she just whipped out her tit, blue veins and all! This on a train with 200+ people packed like sardines. I call that blatant disregard for everyone else. Though it's her right, there's no need to be crude about it.
I have nursed my son in restaurants, in parks, the mall... and I've never felt uncomfortable because I knew that I was doing my best to be considerate... yet providing for my child.

I would not be afraid at all. No one should say a thing to you, you are only feeding your little one, so he/she gets a full tummy!! Sham on anyone who ever should say anything bad to you about that. It natural. It makes me so mad that people should have to worried about that. You may get some looks, but you feed that baby. I do not think that there are any rules/laws about it because who is going to say " mam its against the rules/law to feed that baby". That is a LAWSUIT waiting to happen. Just cover you and the little one up, and feed that baby. I'm sorry that you are worried about that. If you want to talk email me. jokerchic2002@yahoo.com. :)

Your rights are protected and you should not have any problems. Try this web site:

http://www.lalecheleague.org/Law/Bills4....

relax and just breastfeed per normal.
I did it in train, plane and buses.
i did it all over the place with my baby in tow.
What's wrong with breastfeeding?

If someone tells you to do it someplace else, tell the person that he/she shld eat his/her food elsewhere too. Esp if that person tells you to breastfeed in TOILET.

I hate people who discriminate mothers who choose the healthy way!

I have breastfed two children and am on my third. When I was in the hosp. after having my first I was in my room and had some company but needed to feed my child. so I did, but used a blanket to cover up. After a couple of min. i checked on the baby and she was blue!!!!! Her nose was against my breast and she was not breathing. So after that I decided that I could'nt give a crap what people thought or saw. So I breast feed whenever, where ever. In florida it is the law that where ever your children are allowed to be that its ok to bf. Also we are exempt from indesent exposure laws. So I say nurse away-and feel proud that you are making the right choice for your baby.

You can probably expect to get some strange looks, if nothing else. (There's always one @sshole in the bunch, you know?) but as far as rules/regulations...no different from breastfeeding in any other public place (mall, restaurant, movie theater, etc.)

ive never breast fed in public but i would never take offence to someone who did its the most natural thing in the world. unfortunately there are people out there who are to immature and up there own arses to realise this. if you are ever worried then either try and find a quiet place or express before you go out

I think that most people agree that breastfeeding in public is acceptable as long as discretion is shown.I think that some nursing mothers want to challenge everyone about their feelings on this issue and try to make non nursing mothers feel inadequate. I had one poster say that they didn't care about other people's issues with breastfeeding, that was there problem.