Help! 13 and wants kids!?

Well i baby sit a set of 1 yr old boy twins! I love them to death and i baby sit them by myself! I LOVE kids that why i want to become a pediatric nurse! But its like i want my first kid starting NOW! Idk wat to do wit myself! HELP!!!

Its like idk i want my first kid! I actually want 8 of them! 6 girls and 2 boys!
Names:
Girls:
Emily Rose
Rachele Monique
Kimah Marie
Alice Lynn
Rihanna Carmen
And Elizabeth Rose

Guys:
Christopher Jerome
and Edgar Allen

Why Do i have the urge for kids now! HELP!

It's surprising that you have these urges so young, but it's honestly instinctual. It's your "mother instinct" kicking in. I started babysitting when I was 11 and I just LOVE LOVE LOVE kids. I am 26 now and I cannot wait to have children but I know I have to wait a little longer because I'm almost finished with college and I want to work at least a year or so to save up some money before I start bringing amazing children into this world. And the same goes with you, you want to be able to focus on getting your degree to become a pediatric nurse so you can support your children - going to school is INCREDIBLY difficult with children. You will be an awesome Mommy one day, but the thing you have to remind yourself is that when you're a Mom, you must think about what's absolutely best for your children and what's best for them is to bring them into this world when you are completely prepared to give them the best life you know you possibly can! Just keep thinking of fun names for your future children and surround yourself with other people's children for now. The wait will be so worth it :)

have you thought what consequences it can have to have babies that young??? more than you can imagine, do a research on your own so you are fully aware of what can happen besides the pregnancy

lol I had the same problem when I was young but I got over it with school and work and well keeping up with my own little bro that I had to personally raise almost by myself. I think that is what did it for me until I was fiscally and mentally ready. I think that you should wait and have a life first. I didnt get one and regret every moment of it. and he wasn't even mine! I hope that you make the right decision about this. abortion is never the right thing to do especially if the baby daddy decides to run like most do when younger then lol 21!

~Art~

It may seem that way but kids 24/7 at your age is a big responsibilty plus you don't have to take them home and care for them all the time kids are great but wait till you are older.

babysitting kids and having your own are two totally different worlds. when you baby sit the parents are still solely responsible for those kids. if they kids are sick the parents are the ones who are up all night and financially responsible for taking them to the doctor.if you had the twins you would be up all night and then try to go to school. what if the had to go to the hospital? and were in there for a week or longer. plus the other responsibilities of raising kids. such as education, transportation to and from any extracirrcular activities. you see kids don't stay cute and little for long. so ask yourself are you ready for the responsibility.

There is a theory that our purpose on earth is to reproduce, therefore we have urges to do so.

The trouble with starting at 13, is that you will be deprived educationally, socially et cetera. To live successfully in today's world, these are basic requirements ... you must understand that it would be stupid to get pregnant now; when you don't have life skills, education, finances (even prospects of financial security), a home ... to name just a few.

Be sensible, realise how silly it would be and ignore the urge until your situation is conducive to reproducing!

kids r annoying anywayz

relax, give youself time...my friend is a lil younger then me and when she was prego i wanted to be to, i was so jealous, but now i know how stupid it is...She can barely afford the nessities for herself, let alone the baby...She is now living in a trailer, with her mother, and two of her uncle's...there is barely room to breathe...and the best part is that the dad isnt doint much of anything. I have my baby names picked out already to, but i knwo that i could never handle a baby now...i am just not ready, and there is no way i could afford one either...wait until you are the pediatric nurse, have some money saved, and your own place...then have kids...it will be so much easier on EVERYONE,...yourself, your family, and the kids...

Idk y u have the urge, or y i did either, but just fihg tit, thats all you can do

You're at the age that your maternal urges and instincts are starting to kick in. It's fairly normal for young girls to feel this way, somewhat.
You romanticize the idea of a baby.... cute, cuddly, sweet, smiling, giggling, fresh smelling, etc.... all the GOOD aspects of a baby. What you aren't thinking about are the crazy nights without sleep, the stinky diapers, the non-stop fussing, the financial aspects like HOW would you afford to take care of a baby at your age, finish school and work, how to actually RAISE a contributing member of society not just feed, clothe and house a child for the next 18 years...
Start thinking about all the reasons NOT to have a baby and I guarantee you that the list of reasons NOT to will far outweigh ANY reasons to actually have one right now.

It sounds like you have a strong maternal instinct! Good for you! But why is it so strong now? Your hormones are playing a strong part in this. Possibly the want and need to experience that loving bond between yourself and another human being, one that can't be broken, one that is unconditional, is also also contributing.

At this age, some girls express a more maternal instinct, and others go simply boy crazy. Tweens also start to pull away from their parents and find their own identity, and establish their own relationships.

It is difficult for the parents to let go, and trust, and allow their kids to make these decisions and suffer the consequences of their mistakes. That being said, you will probably receive a lot of responses about "How much responsibility it is" and "How much it costs" and "You have to go to school" and "Are you crazy" from both adults and kids. I would imagine that if you talked to adults/family members, they would freak out and worry that you were having sex. It is a normal, protective, reaction for them. Though you probably would hate that type of reaction, try to understand the meaning behind it - it is done out of concern and care for you.

But it seems you are asking "why" you are feeling this way, more than asking for a lecture though. So I will spare you the obvious.

Think about when you want babies the most. Is it only when you are baby-sitting? Is it just the babies that make you feel this way, or the babies and the house and all their toys? Think separately about when they are sleeping, and then about when you are holding them. What about when you are lonely?

Instead of saying, "I want a baby" try to identify the feelings you have during your time with them and away from them. Is it the responsibility that you enjoy? Do you feel more like an adult when you are with them? What about the protectiveness you have for the children? How do you feel about the way they look at you with unconditional care? Oh! And babies don't lie... so that removes fear of betrayal.

If you can identify these feelings, you may find that most of them have to do with your starting to want independence and to surround yourself with people that you can love, trust, care for, be protective of, and that won't take advantage of you - just like with a baby. Focus on making friends that are like this, and ditch the rest. I know it is easier said than done - and you may find that you ditch a lot now, and befriend them later after they start to find THEMSELVES. You may find that sometimes it seems like NO ONE meets you standards - but the more people you meet, the more you have to choose from. Be strong and understand you will get hurt - but when people take advantage of you, don't let it demoralize you. Make sure it strengthens who you are. At whatever cost, don't settle for less than the best, make the best for yourself with getting though school and hanging around the right people, so that when you are older and ready, you will be the best mommy ever! You will have the time and money to do all kinds of fun things with them, and teach them to have high standards, just like you.

yourrrrr effin crazy sweet heart.

you got a whole life ahead of you.
have fun while you cann

kids take moneyyyyy
so get a job

That's normal, don't worry! This feeling will go away soon. I'm your age and have been feeling the same way lately. I wanted to have a little girl and name her Alyssa Peyton. The truth is we aren't ready for kids yet. And I envy you for getting to babysit those cuties! Remember this, woudn't you rather have a family with the love of your life? Remember when we were younger, and we wanted to grow up? And know, we just want to go back? I think having kids is kind of like that. So just enjoy your life, this feeling should leave in a while. = ]

My best advice to you is to WAIT. You are so young right now, and you have your whole life ahead of you.
You will have plenty of time in the future to have children.
Believe me, I thought that raising kids was easy until I helped raise my sister's kids when I was fourteen. It's not as easy as it looks. And now that I am seventeen yrs old and 32 wks pregnant I get to look forward to all that fun.
I am actually excited, but at the same time really mad because I always planned on going to college and become a NP. Chances are that will probably not happen, now.
When you get pregnant at a young age you have to sacrifice so much for your kid.
For me it was almost my life. I was a HUGE drinker, smoker, substance abuser (as my mother would have put it.) and loved to party. I did really well in school but out of school, I was terrible. As soon as I found out that I was pregnant, I changed my ways for the better. And truthfully my baby girl saved my life!
I was out one night hanging out in the streets downtown with my boyfriend and my brother (they both are best friends.)
and my brother had illegal drugs in his car , (but I didn't know that) I started getting cramps so my doctor told me to always "walk em off" so I told him "no" and walked home insead because I had side cramps. Later that night , my brother go into a serious car accident. Thankfully, he only suffered a minor concussion but he crushed his entire rib cage! If I would have crushed my entire rib cage my baby girl would probably have died. Losing her that way would have ruined me.
Now, since you want kids. Why don't you just wait a couple yrs? Plan it all out now.

Good luck!

If you have any other questions feel free to e-mail me.

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ur to young

I think your doing the best thing you could - Babysitting !! That way you get to enjoy their playfulness without the full on stress!! Well done !! I'd stick with what you've got, maybe for a while!! lol x :)

ha ha ha I fel the same wway since I was like 9! I have been babysitting for about 7-8 years and I still do but keep this in mind they aren't one when there born. I babysitt baby babies and hunny it can get very tiring when they are screaming and need your attention 24/7.. I still want kids and I always notice pregnant women or gawk over babiess but I know they will come when I need them and it will only help if you wait until your out of school. :) good luck and be safe babies are not what you need now!

i am 13 too and would love to have a little baby but know i am not ready. i think it is because you spend so much time with them that you realize how much of a miracle they are and how much joy they bring to your life. just be sure to wait and dont mess up your life because if you have a baby now you will miss school have to tay back and it will mess up your entire life and what you have planned you will probably not be able to afford to go to college and your life will suck. wait till you find the right person to have a baby.

Some girls at your age really want love and attention. I've been there before, but having children at 13 is unacceptable. Learn to love yourself and appreciate yourself before you have children. You don't want to mess up your body at a young age because of children. Enjoy being young. I've been there before. I know exactly what you're feeling. At least wait until you're out of high school