Argue again and again about the same subject.?

I have been on a long distance relationship, everything was good until these last couple of months. My girlfriend is study for the nclex and nursing exam and ielts a english exam to get a visa into the us. However she was not confident because she didn't past the english exam twice. And now her nclex exam will be coming. She seems distant from me and we decided to take a break. However, I don't know if a break will work because she is doubting our relationship, about the marriage we plan and our future, she is doubting herself and yelling at me about the same subject. I just want to know if she will come back to me or go back to Japan. I feel that all the decisions is up to her and I feel that I have no say in this. I have been a trust good boyfriend for a whole year waiting for her. But now I feel that I don't know if I should wait, if she is pushing me away more and more. I want to just finish our relationship if she don't care about me, but I can't until she finish the nclex.

Build her confidence back up. Reassure her. Nuture her. Make her feel good about herself. When it comes to test taking, you'll need more than knowledge. You'll need the will to pass, the will to succeed. And if you don't have that, even if you know it all, you'll bomb. And it looks like she's going to bomb, because she's lacking this. There's no need for you two to take a break. In fact, you should do the opposite. Let her study as much as she can, and talk to her whenever's she got free time. She's stressed about the tests. Constantly reassure her that she's going to do fine, and before you know it, you'll both be standing at the altar, hand in hand. And if worse comes to worse, you could try going to her instead of her coming to you. If she gets stuck in Japan because she cannot pass the tests, she'll need you more than ever. Get a passport, because that's all you'll need to cross over, fly out, and see her. And if you have plans of living in the U.S., if you go out there, you can personally help her study and pass. But it seems all she needs is a bit of reassurance and confidence in herself. That's the role you play right now.

im a girl..leave her alone.. and she will be more likely to come back than if you bother her..best of luck

The best thing to do is give her time, she is not angry with you she is stressing everyone does when it comes to taking a test that could make you or break you. In a time like this she really just wants to pass the test and be with you. But her brain is filled with questions and answers. So give her time to calm down then talk to her about how you feel and what's going on in her head so that you both can make a decision on what to do.

maybe she's too stressed out because of the exam...be more patient ..and see how things go after her exam...dun jump into a conclusion just because of small matter..u should know that she's stress rite now...dun give her any burden...talk things out after her exam

I think you should give her more time, she has a lot of pressure from the exam I think. Talk to her only when the exam's over, that usually works. Best of luck