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When I got married I found out my husband had an undescended testicle at birth. Me being a nurse, Knew that the procedure needed to be completed by 1 yr of age- no later. He had the surgery at 5 yrs old. We were trying to get pregnant but nothing happened. I just found out that my husband is sterile. That does not change the way I feel about him or my love. The kicker is, we got his surgical reports, and it was his mother who decided not to do the surgery even though she knew that her son would not be able to have children in the future. My husband just found this out but is not tking any sides. His parents are blaming me for infertility anywhere from- I don't eat right to I'm hypoglycemic which is not true. HOW DO I DEAL WITH HIS PARENTS SO MY HUSBAND DOESN'T HAVE TO BE IN THE MIDDLE? I'M SO ANGRY RIGHT NOW> I feel for you. You are in a tight spot. Has your husband seen a urologist? There are ways nowadays with microscopic procedures to take tissue from the male and extract sperm from it. You'd be amazed! I don't know your feeling of donor sperm, but there are a lot of sperm banks where you can purchase sperm and do an insemination in a physicians office. Right now, is too late to dwell on what happened many years ago. Deal with the problem, look for solutions and move on. I'm sure his mother didn't mean to hurt her son. Let him know that you love him and work as a team to achieve the goal of a happy, health child. even though your angry i think the best thing to do in this situation is just to ignore what they are saying about you as long as you and husband know it isn't true then it shouldnt really matter....sounds like they are venting at you because they wont admit they are angry with them selves its always easyer to blame other people than to admit they have made the mistake...maybe his mother thought that the surgery would be to risky for him to have at such an young age and didnt quite understand what would happen if he didnt have it ...or maybe it wasnt explained to her properly.....its hard to make descisions for your children because you dont want to get it wrong and for them to suffer for it....she is probably feeling very guilty and feeling like she has ruined his future Don't deal with them. It's none of their business. When my husband and I were struggling with infertility people would always ask whose fault is it that we can't get pregnant. Turns out... it was both of us. Regardless, the reason for not getting pregnant (or getting pregnant) is no one's business. |
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