Your in your thirties and your unhappily married, older second cousin admits she wants you. do you go for it?

throw in you both live in a small town where gossip travels faster than prunes through a nursing home and the family also talks. you also actually have a little guilt sleeping with a married woman, but with her killer a@$ this is also a once in a life time opportunity! what would you do?

I should add Im single

I would say go ahead. She is your second cousin, that does not constitute incest. If she is unhappily married she will fool around anyway with someone else. It would be best if this was kept quiet or that she split with her husband first. If she was not your cousin, would you sleep with her ? If so, go ahead, its not incest. As long as your not married its ok.

Don't do it.

hell no ~~~ COUSIN!!!

Come on! Don't be ridiculous!

No. it wouldn't be worth it to my reputation.

#1, affair
#2, incest to f*ck your cousin
#3, nasty to even want to do so.

Arkansas or West Virginia? Does she have all her teeth?

Actually incest is only for first cousins FYI.

Unless you want a lot more misery then you have now don't start something with your cousin until you have ended things with your wife. An affair will just bring on problems of its own that you don't need and can't handle with all the rest you have on your plate at the moment. I know it is very tempting, especially when your cousin makes you feel so desirable by her attentions, but it is soooo not worth it. Like I said, finish the one thing, before you start another.

Ask your self is it worth the scandal and the divorce .

dude dont do it, it may seem awesome but u will regret it later

I would run...not walk....away from her or any other married, single, divorced, widowed or other woman. Unhappy or not, you're a married man. If you're so miserable, do your wife a favor and file for divorce. When that is finalized, find someone who is NOT related to you!

nope

NO
and you need some marriage counseling
be the man and get it
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Ewwww!

No , second cousin would be to closely related , it just don't seem right .All the women in the world why would you sleep with your second cousin ? May you born in hell for all eternity just for thinking of sleeping with your second cousin.

Don't settle for your second cousin. Move to New York and find someone real. Forget all about her

well 2nd cousin isnt that bad but i still wouldnt do it

Cousin...No...Too pervy!

baserunner
it is also a once in alife time opportunity for your 2nd cousin to mess you up with the remainder of the family for the rest of your life.

if you are in a marriage that is bad..get out...then do whatever you want...otherwise the guilt will make you crazy

Don't do it, you know something bad will come from it.

Marrying your cousin is legal in some states I think, but there are restrictions. Some people find this a little incestuous, moreover highly inappropriate. Some cultures promote this type of family marriage. Beware of the health problems kids from these intra-family marriages tend to have 鈥?down syndrome for one. Go for it if you think she's right for you and there's absolutely no one else... Otherwise move to a bigger city and find a nice girl.

no, you try to FIX what's wrong in the marriage like a responsible person would instead of running elsewhere like a gutless punk.

Just because you are unhappy doesn't make this a good choice!!!
There will be no good to come from it! Only more of a mess.
You can't be THAT desperate to go for the cousin???!!!

She may be a second cousin, but that's still a relative. Use your common sense and say no. If you're unhappy with your wife, it's time you two had a serious discussion about the future. But incest and adultery are not the way to end your marriage.

aint got nothing left might as well i wouldnt though cause i dont want 2 be called hill billy plus dat nasty

are there any more mens in this world.

Seems to me, unhappily married is it's own issue that needs to be dealt with before older second cousin is considered. If you're letting one situation influence the other you're going to end up in a mess that you haven't considered and aren't in control of.

If the older cousin is a serious thing and someone that could be your wife, she'll understand that you need time to responsibly deal with your marriage. I think you should go to marriage counseling, try everything you can to make sure that there is no hope for your marriage. Obviously you *were* happy with her at some point, or you wouldn't have gotten married. If after everything you can't fix it, I would wait to clear your head after splitting and if you still want the second cousin then make a decision. If she's the real deal, she'll wait, and you'll be willing to wait.

Jumping feet first from a bad situation into a new one rashly is a pretty good plan for failure and regret.

You seriously had to ask that question...who cares if shes got an a@$ ... family is family you dont screw your family...sick.

this is your second cousin right? You must be from West Virginia. The rule is if you have the possibility of having to spend Thanksgiving with the other person, and you aren't married to them, Do NOT sleep with 'em.

hell yeah boy, do it, do it, do it, come on do it for the team.

Only if you can remain discreet. Try meeting out of town if you can. Good luck!