How do I know if he likes me..or even make him notice me?

Okay my bff Caiti never really went out with B.J. but it was the closest thing to it. She decided to move on and he still likes her....I know that for a fact because he and I have talked about it on the our cells through text. I don't know if I like him. I mean he's sweet and very funny, but he was kinda Caiti's bf. She doesn't care. She WANTS me to go out with him. But I know he still likes her and I respect that. But I wound if he likes me at all..more than a friend. I want him to notice me. Right now I'm thinking about just being friends and maybe flirt a lil bit and see what happens. Do you think I should do this, if not then can you suggest something better?

WHEN IT COMES TO DATING AND ALL, I KNOW ONE MINUTE THEY MAY NOT LIKE THE GUY AND THEN NEXT MINUTE THEY WANT HIM BACK JUST BECAUSE HE IS NO LONGER AVAILABLE. THIS IS WHY I NEVER TRASH TALK ABOUT MY FRIEND'S RECENT BREAK UPS CAUSE WHAT IF THEY DO GET BACK TOGETHER AND YOU BE ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN.

well i don't really no what this is about but my name is caiti! spelled like that to!!! ya, peace out!!!!!!! Report It

Leave that alone, do not date him , if he still likes her, and don't study your friend she still has feelings for him, and i bet if you do go out with him it will ruin your friendship. leave him alone.

well if you did flirt i wouldnt do that when ur friend is around cuz of ur reading the wrond signs u'll make a fool of yourself and ur friend will be mad, but if you really have to flirt with him just to no then ask your friend if thats ok with her

I think u should be friend with him at first and try to find more about what u don't know about him before u want to jump into a relation with him..and then u maybe can find things what u never could think about it..if he is open he will look to the closer opposite sex friend..

I would never date one of my friends x's. It causes problems and there is always going to be feelings between them. I have tried it too and she actually ended up going back to my friend and it ruined our relationship.