How to let her forgive me? i'm really wrong!?

I hurt my girl friend by words like asking for a break up for a few times and i did also said words that hurt her feeling like "not click with her". This time she really agree with me.. Now i then know how much important she is to me. That day i asked for a break up due to my anger, but i don't mean it at all. I have realise that i had never care for her feeling at all and hurt her again and again using words. I feel very regret for what i have said to her. I have really awake and realise my mistake. Now i am giving her space to cool down and heal her wound. Can someone teach me how to do? i really love her alot.

Just tell her exactly how you feel and then let her decide if she still wants to be with you.

things will work at ,just learn to control your anger and dont be so quick to ask for certain things such as soon you asked to break up and you got it

It sounds like this is a pattern of verbal abuse that you are displaying. Sorry to say this guy, but you need to leave her alone forever, for her own good. You are doing nothing but messing her up psychologically by continuing to say these negative things and then being nice to her.

Tell her what you just told us.

Hi Friend,
Dont worry, usually girls have the character of forgiving. ur girl friend would have forgotten all those bad incidents... actually, u know the total body language and behaviour of ur girl friend, so pls take decision by urself. i can't say this will work off, but this is the safest way. and u may feel the value of this soon...

when it comes to relationships always remember that it is a two way thing and most of all not always abt you, you should watch your words. if she still loves you she will forgive you en then get back 2 you bt know 1thng this is your last chance. you should neva hurt the women you love. all the best brother

Tell these to her. Tell her how sorry you are to be hurting her and tell her that you really want to control your anger but don鈥檛 know how. Maybe she can understand you better then and maybe she will be able to help you better.

Now you know how much it hurts when you are close to losing her so be careful in the future. Be in the same shoes and see how much it hurts you now! Take control of your anger.

Talk to her, everything will be ok.

Yep I will try. It is called think quick and speak slow.

In other words you have in the past and on quite a view occasions hurt her with your words and that was spoken in anger.

I think you should be going to anger management sessions for if you don't deal with the "root" of the problem which is suppressed anger I can tell you now, it will not work.

As it is she does not trust you now so if, and when she will be willing to take you back and forgive you, you must realize that it is going to take quite some time, for you will have to proof to her that it is not going to happen again. If you don't deal with the "root" the fruit like rage outburst is going to re-occur

Examine yourself and see if you have one or more of the following:

1. Do you feel angry at who knows who;
2. Do you feel rejected;
3. Do you feel helpless;
4. Do you feel misunderstood;
5. Are you seeking approval of say parents, teachers or whoever;
6. Are you a people pleaser;
7. Have you ever had suicidal thoughts or murder - that is passive or active;
8. Do you think the world owes you something;
Well if the answer to the above is more than 3 then your "root" stems from "rejection" and you will have to deal with this by taking the "root" out. The abovementioned is only the fruit and if you want to remove the fruit, my friend they will come back, but not if you remove the "root" The "root" of bitterness can also be there.
Make an appointment with a Christian Counsselor and have a couple of sessions with him. It will take some time but I am telling you untill you deal with this anger problem, which is a fruit of "bitterness" and stems out of the "root" of rejection, you will not be able to make any commitment even if it is not with this girl. You will walk into the next relationship with baggage and it will not work.
Deal with the "root". God Bless
Take care
Suz

be with her....spend as much time n attention as u can giv to her.......let her know tht she means a lot to u!

tell her! tell her!! telllllllllll herrrrrrrrrrrr