I made the worst mistake ever?

I made one of the worst mistakes of my life.I relocated to Los Angeles from the bay Area, and I wound up getting involved with this guy at my college.He's what you would call "Mr.Popularity" he's in a fraternity, school president, etc, so we had a brief sexual relationship, It wasn;t planned or anything, but he's friends with this girl I know, and I also know his sister, they both happens to be part of an organization I want to join.Anyhow, a few months go by, and I sent tim a text message saying good morning the guy I was involved with told me not to call him anymore, and also went on to say that I if i called him again he would get a restraining order, and that he did not like me...so I said fine "no problem" I never called him again right, so the very next day I get a voicemail from his friend inviting me to an event "that he invited her too" I returned her call three days later, and she's tells, me never mind" the event is over, "take care" so after that I would see her at school

I see her at school she ignores me, i;ve called her a few times to wish her happy holidays, and to wish her congrautlations on winning a show at my school she just ignores me, when I see him at first he ignored me, but a few months back he called me over to him saying he wanted to talk to me, but I told him i had to get to class, and so now he doesn't speak to me anymore,so I just feel so bad about te whole thing..now none of the members speaks..

What is your mistake? I am not following. Was your mistake sleeping with a guy before you really found out he is an a##hole? That would be the only thing I see.

As for the organization you wanted to be a part of - just move on. Do something else. Obviously, this little boy and his entourage are not mature enough to handle friendships.

Move on - this is just part of growing up. Lesson learned.

Peace.

this was stupid

gl

uhm, what?

talk about a jerk

What is the question?

Call his friend and tell her you are pregnant with his baby and dont allow him to call you. Change your number threaten a restraining order and child support too.After a while tell them you were joking and it's over now.Dont call you back.

Then move on. The past can't be change, the furture is in your hands by the present. Just move on and find a new group of friends, now the man cannot get a restraining order for you calling him, because there was no harrasment, but just respect his wishes and the others, i am sure that of all the kids there one would want to be your friend, just move on and find a new bunch of comrades.

I think there is a lot you are not telling us.... could you possibly be obsessed? You seem to have pushed your way into everything there. No one gets threatened with a restraining or just saying good mornng.

Fess up

EHHH!..such drama and i thought jrhigh and highschool was a problem...
i don't understand..what is ur question?

LOL

sorry i don't see any questions in here unles you are asking if those people are idiotic jerks..then i can answer you saying yes they so truthfully are!