Am I a stalker?????????

I was dating this girl online for about 6 months. I went to visit her and her family for a couple weeks and we wound up being very intimate. During my visit I invited her to come and visit me at my place and we could see where things progressed from there. From the very beginning, she told me she wanted to come visit and even went as far as getting the passport to come. A few weeks after my return home, I find out from her she wanted some space from me, so I tried my best to give it. Then it became, she wasn't comfortable anymore with coming to visit me and all signs showed her dating another person. I kind of lost it and started drinking. She got really mad at me for this and completely severed ties with me. I have e-mailed her a few times and have tried to contact her through IM's and such. No response. I realize now, she and I are nothing, but I still really care for her and can't seem to stop thinking about her. Does this make me a stalker??

Not a stalker, but obsessive, yes.

well i wud do the same thing!!! If shes cheating on u then dnt even bother with her!!! There are more fish in the sea!!!!

no shes a cheat...u were right...get over it...there are hotter pple out there...ur a guy ITS WAT U DO!!!

nope it doesnt make u a stalker...
u r just still obssessed to her......shes moved on..but hvnt yet started..go on move ahead....life is much better ahead

No, your a stalker if you keep harassing her when you know its only to make her life miserable and nothing more. You need to find yourself a new love interest and get her off your mind. I suggest you cease all contact with her. You have tried and its obvious she's not interested anymore.

No, not at all. Caring about someone and expressing it is not stalking. However, she clearly wants nothing to do with you, and it hurts. What you need to do, is keep real busy in your life and work hard to get over it. There appears to be more to the story on her end, so what you thought you and her were probably wasn't the same on her end. Take care.

Obsessed, but not a stalker.

no not a stalker.. either shes cheating, she over you or there is something wrong in her life and shes pushing people away. Have you tried calling her? If you really are in love with her maybe you should tell her.. Write her a letter and send her some flowers.. If she doesnt reply then forget her and move on.

It makes you rejected, and her all about herself. Apparently when you were there you did'nt make a good enough impression; how much you love her is not in question; to women loving her is completely irrelivant if they don't feel the same way. Just move on, she already has.

It's the truth people! and it works both ways, noone is going to stick with someone that "say's" they love them, unless there's something in it for them.

Move on, you may still think of her but it will eventually fade. Find a gym or go jogging just go out and occupy yourself with other activities, get into dating, it will help. Don't let yourself go down hill over someone who apparently doesn't want you. You will find true love, it just takes time and patience. Good luck

you're on the verge of it. you need to let her go and get on with your life. She doesn't want anything to do with you. Okay, so now you stop drinking, get your act together and go out and meet new intersting people.

No, you saw something more into the relationship then she did. She should have been completely honest and fessed up that she was seeing someone else. I have a problem with the fact that you said because of this you started drinking. Drinking is no way to solve your problems and as a result of this she stop talking to you completely. Sounds to me she was looking for a reason to sever all ties with you and you fell right in the old trap. Right where she wanted you. You just made it easy for her to go. Don't blame yourself for this. Because truth be told she was leaving you anyway she just didn't know how. Then opportunity came and she took it. You are worth more than that. You don't need her. Sounds to me like she made room for the right someone to come into your life. And learn from past experience in the future. If you feel your falling for someone, then talk to that person about expectations out of the relationship. 1st of all stop drinking, pull yourself together, don't contact her anymore, don't punish yourself, and I declare that the right someone will cross your path. Good luck to you.

yes

First i lookdown to alcoholic.If you are really alcoholic or regular drinker don't suddenly cut your drinking it need to tail off or else it could be fatal. Becareful about cirrosis and HCC.if you are not use your really name and date her you are really like a stalker.