I am a 36 male and I feel like no girl wants to love me?

I hate my life, I try to stay positive and do nice things for people. I recently strarted reading the Bible but the reality is girls just dont like me, and im kind of shy at times, especially now after my ex destroyed me inside. I just dont care anymore. I cant end it cause i dont want to hurt my family, and I've tried drugs recently which made me worse so i stopped. Now im just lonely and all i think about is how much the world hates me. What is wrong with me, why do i feel like everyone hates me. I just want to be happy, somedays I am, then im not the next day, i am so unstable, i am struggling so hard. I was in therapy last summer, on antidepressants, xanax, wound up in the ER and almost died cause i mixed them all with heavy drinking. I just hate the way my life has turned out, I was supposed to be with my ex g/f in Canada and get enganged now im just sad and hurting and I cant take it anymore. I guess i should go pop some antidepressants for awhile and go see another counselor.

You have to let it go man, it's over with her and you need to let it go. Clean yourself up stop the drinking and go see a shrink you need help, a counselor does not have the expertise to help you. I also am going through a very ruff patch and I may never get back my health or be able to work in my field again but I am not going to let it destroy my life. Your life will change but you have to do the changing so get out there and make the necessary changes that are needed for your life to turn around. Only you can do this no one can lead you thru it, it's hard but that's life. God bless and good luck.

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aw...im sure there is someone out there who is going to love you forever. U just have to wait..and dont take any more drugs.

hey man don't do drugs becuz a girl messed up your life.I believe the reason you take drugs is because you keep thinking about her and how your life is messed up,"find a hobby",meet new people for a change STOP THINKING ABOUT HER its only make things WORST You feel like no one likes u because your girl don't like you no more and its like u entering a dry spell in which your cards and not laid out right but to tell the truth u might hear this before just live your life don't do drugs find a hobby continue to treat people nice but don't over do it dont worry man just play your card right and lay off the dope