Spoke with ex I dated for 5 years. Broke up 2 years ago. Were both dating new people. Need advice?

I was hoping for some advice. Its a long story but ill sum it up. Me and my ex dated from when I was 15 to 20. We were crazy kids in love and went through a lot. We were young and immature and got too serious when we were too young. We wound up hurting each other a lot and made lots of mistakes. Towards the end, we were dating on and off and I didn't treat her the way I should have due to being young and immature. We began fighting alot due to me having family problems and falling into a depression. I ended it b/c I just couldnt handle a relationship anymore. I wound up leaving her a nasty email and thats how things left off. 2 years later were more mature, im dating someone new and things are rocky. I didnt like the way i left things off so I emailed her apologizing. We started talking on the phone and were both dating other people and care about them... but arent in love with them. I thought I was over her after 2 years, but it seems like I was wrong... Very confused right now.Thanks

I realize now that im older that I didn't treat my ex the right way, which contributed to a lot of our problems. I treat my current girlfriend the way I knew I should have treated my ex. Me and my new gf have been dating for 7 months and went away on vacation. We almost broke up 2 times so far. I more or less am just accepting the relationship for what it is. There are a lot of cons in my current relationship and I feel like I got her too attached. She has bad anger problems. Does not respect my interests(mixed martial arts), has control problems, trust issues. The passion kind of died between us. That is the main reason I accepted the fact of her having a serious STD. This makes me not want to have sex b/c the passion died and I feel i am putting myself at risk for no reason. Blood tests came back clean... thank god, and she resents the fact that I am relieved that I don't have it. But on the flip side, we grew very comfortable. I feel like she is a close friend... not a lover.

It's great you both still have feelings for each other, but you need to work things out in your current relationship first. If things don't work out then call your ex back and see where things are..but until you're finished with the current one don't seek out the ex. Things have to happen naturally. If you are meant to be together things will happen on their own. Just be patient and see.

you need to sort out your feelings. if you still like your ex you need to break up with the other girl before things get anymore serious. Maybe now that you and your ex are older and more mature you can have a better relationship. Good luck

You should check out the site http://www.connectioncounselor.com as it helped me get through the struggles and eventually marry my girlfriend. Good luck to you!

It is very common for people to forget the bad and only remember the good. It didn't work. You were young. Unfortunately, you're still young. The lust has worn off this current relationship and you're wondering now why you ever left the first girl. I can promise you, two years from now, you'll be looking back at the girl you are currently with and wondering why it ever ended.

You've opened a can of worms. I suppose you two can get back together, but don't look for it to last. When you're 40 and look back, then you've matured. You really haven't yet.

so do you think u have feelings for her still??? hmm this is very confusing. i think for the time being, u should still be with ur current gf, but keep in touch with ur ex, and if things start to spice up again and u want to get back together, then break up with ur current gf. but make sure ur ex feels the same way. if i were u, i would try to patch things up with ur ex, coz it sounds like u have been through alot after being with eachother for 5 years. good luck!!

Well how long have u been with the person ur with. U don't really love someone after just a month or so. Give this new person a chance and remember that u guys broke up for a reason. Ya u were young and immature but chaces are if u decided to go out again u would prolly go right back to the way things were.

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