Growing - please read and leave responces.?

Growing up can be hard, Getting older means you鈥檙e getting more responsible, as you grow older you learn more and understand things far more clearly. As you grow older you understand the concept of life you can also realize that stuff that used to not bother you, do bother you now, or perhaps you鈥檙e personality has changed. maybe as you were growing up you were not wound up from certain things as much as you are now, nothing used to pray on you鈥檙e mind like it does now, going back in time you would do anything at the drop of a hat without fretting or worrying about it. You鈥檙e emotions change, you develop new things, you start to shave, do you鈥檙e hair and make up, you care about you鈥檙e looks more than you do care for an education. You relationships with you鈥檙e family are in a mess you may feel like everyone around you is floating away slowly like an empty boat sailing away from a lonely deserted island, then you watch the boat sink and there another person you love has gone.

as a young child you would sit there watching a romantic love movie you鈥檙e mum rented from the video store around the corner and you would think 鈥?this movie is so boring how can my mum like this movie, I just can鈥檛 wait till its over so I can watch cartoons 鈥?staying up all night was a breeze, looking good was you鈥檙e way of life, going out was fun, you only smoked because you thought it would make you look cool, getting drunk every night was the best, talking to complete strangers was no problem, nothing at all worried you.
Then all of a sudden you are just changing in to new person, a whole new you and its scary but amazing.
You now find that you鈥檙e an opposite of all that. Want to go out this weekend? But what about the kids? I have no babysitter. Stay up all night? No, I cant. I鈥檒l be exhausted, and I wont be able to get up for work tomorrow morning. Talk to strangers? No, what should I say?? And So & So said that about me? Grr, I must stress about anything incessantly.

that sounds lieka common experiance n_n 鈾?i feel liek mine wus differnt tho!! i feel liek i grow apart form my family because instead of excepting everything they do, i realise that theyve been hurting me, now i say "no" and we grow apart.
*looks thoughtful* its hard to know if weve changed, or jus our suroundings aha *smiles an shrugs* i feel the same always n_n

Thats normal

true that

words of artifical wisdom ;)

hey seriously i didnt read all that cuz its long but ya sure i agree wit ya! lol

i agree totally
that is creepy how much that sound like i feel
almost like you got it out of my head
lol

Bad Advice^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
As you get older the more you think you understand something, the less it makes sense. The older you get the closer family should become. For you to realize that they are moving slowly away from you, gives you the means, and the reason, to correct what ever problem you have with them. Family is the most important thing. Second to family is education. telling from your picture you shouldnt even be talking about looks. Love your family, unconditionally.

You are right my friend!

I agree with you

And The Level after That, When The Kids are raised is best of all. Satisfied that You did the best you could, sometimes under difficult circumstances, you can now reflect on the hard , but pleasurable tasks of raising children, and if lucky, becoming a Grand Parent...!!
And, This is the time We realize, That none of us is close to being as smart as we thought we were....!!
But We Can Appreciate: 'A Job Well-done'....!!

nice, touching. gracefully executed :)