I just wish he will care about me..?

i really wish he will care about me at least a bit...
we been together one month and he suggeste us to apart(although he still love me)..
i cried every nite during the three months of being apart..
but now we are back together...
i love him very much and i care about him..but why doesnt him does?
when he tells me he will phone me or text me msg,he always wouldnt...that hurts me a lot for i dislike people breaking their promise..
i am always worry when he is unhappy and woundnt reply my text..but when i am down or sad he seldom notice...
i was deeply hurt when apart but he doesnt care..he never tells he dun mean to hurt me..

But yet,when he gives me hugs and kiss me..he care about me and always let me feels safe and loved..

my heart is bleeding and it is very pain..i am very badly wound...he knows he hurts me but he never cares..shall i tell him how i feel? i dun wan our relationship affected..
Really no!!!!
Please *advise me..i am very confuse..

dump him

get rid of him. it will hurt a lot... yes...... but you need to move on to better things...

He obviously doesn't care about you much!
Unfortunately you love somebody that doesn't love you. It will go away, you'll find somebody else who will love you as much as you do.
Good luck!

You definately need to talk to him about it, try not to attack him with things but tell him how thins upset you. Some guys just aren't that perceptive and may care how you feel butare clueless to the signs of it. Talk to him and see what he says, he may say he didn't realise and may make more efort. He is doesn't and behaves like an *** please get rid. Don't cling on to it and things would only get worse over time if he continues to behave that way. You deserve someone that shows you the love you deserve.

Is time for you move on.... go for a better ones who deserves u more than him....

U can do it..

Yea, u r confused - just read what you wrote. Don't u get it, can't u c it? He is just using u, he's taking u for advantage, he doesn't really care about u. It's very obvious, u r just his until someone else comes along. Of course he gives u hugs & kisses - he's smart, he knows that's what will keep u from running from him. He wants all the cards in his court, he wants the control, he wants to dump u when he's ready, when he finds someone else. And if u're having sex w/ him, this is a for sure sign u're being used. Everyone feels safe & loved when they get affection, but u can't base your relationship soley on that, there has to be more to it. You need to quit being desperate, you'll get over it, dump him, & try to move on, or you're going to have a crappy relationship & you'll be on a roller coater with this guy & just keep getting hurt over & over again - not fun.

there's this saying.."if he doesn't love you, the way you want him to love you, it doesn't mean, that he doesn't love you"...you just have to accept the fact that the guy you're with is not into texting or calling a lot and the reason that he said yes he will call you is because he knows that he can't say no to you...he does care..but in a very different way...try to weigh things...what important is how he makes you feel when your together...don't let this kind of things ruin your relationship...